The word 'accommodate' by the Merriam-Webster dictionary.com definition is:
1: to make fit, suitable, or congruous
2: to bring into agreement or concord : reconcile
3: to provide with something desired, needed, or suited (as a helpful service, a loan, or lodgings)
What I have found in communicating via email, it means: "I want it my way or it shouldn't be at all." or "It doesn't fit my personal schedule."
What I have found in communicating via face-to-face, it means: "Oh, I didn't see it/know about it/insert excuse here."
That concludes today's lesson in definition and application. Tune in next week for more wisdom from the soap box.